You are ALWAYS enough
The excitement of new love can cause you to readily cater and serve the one you have. It can have you to over look every flaw that would keep you from trying too hard or giving too much because you HOPE they are enough.
The excitement of new love can cause you to give the benefit of doubt instead of seeing the red flags, because you are SURE they may be enough.
The strength of deep love can cause you to try over and over again. It can cause you to have another inch that you will freely give because you KNOW they are enough.
The strength of deep love can cause you to grasp hold to the other, no matter how much they are pushing you away, because you FEAR they are enough.
They ache of abused and misused love can cause you to question if the love was ever really there. It can cause a pain so intense that you find yourself holding your breath in an attempt to ease the stinging of this type of love, because you THOUGHT they WERE enough.
The ache of abused and misused love can cause you to harbor resentment, not for the one you loved before, but resentment in the invention of love itself, because you thought LOVE was enough.
The acceptance of fading love can cause you to embrace the past beyond what should be considered normal. It can cause you to be in love with the thought of the love you once had, because it USE TO be enough.
The acceptance of fading love can cause you to feel hallow and incapable of future love. It can bring insecurities that were never present before, because now you are not sure what would be enough.
The reality of past love can cause you to appreciate the love you once had. It cause you to value the memories, with out the memories holding you hostage.
The reality of past love can cause you to understand that love is not so easy to comprehend. It can be true that the other person was always enough, but now you have move forward knowing that YOU have to be Enough.
(Ladies, if I can leave anything with you, i hope to leave the thought that you have to be enough before you can build anything with anyone.)
Seeds of Life
We are born with millions of seeds that has the possibility to grow into anything. What determines if it will grow is your actions. Will you hold on tight to the seeds and never have faith to place them in the soil of life? You can have the million dollar business idea but what good is a thought that never leaves your mind? Will a seed ever become its potential without being submerged in the soil? Will you have faith to take the thought that no one hears and plant it in the atmosphere? Will you water and nourish it or allow it to perish?
Every thing we do or don’t do started from a seed…a thought. Have you ever had something slip out of your mouth and thought where did that come from? It came from a seed–a thought. If we truly understand the power of a thought especially if its being fed we would y.derstsnd that you can change your life by changing your thoughts and feeding and supporting those thoughts.
Challenge: Write a positive quote on an index card and every time a negative thought enters your mind. Read the card to refocus your thinking. It will not happen over night–it is a process. My quote is: “Blossom where you are planted at…”